Decisions, decisions...

Posted Sunday, July 20, 2008 8:36 PM

And no, I'm not talking about figuring out which cupboard to put the bowls in. I wish it was that easy!

After we moved to Wisconsin, it took me 10 months to find a job. Yes, I was "picky," but there also wasn't an overabundance of PR jobs in the area. And my current job isn't my dream job, by any means, but it's OK. And I work with really nice people (after all, they let us borrow the work truck for our move!), which helps. When I took the job, my thinking was that I'd stay there for 6-12 months, and then try to move on to something more in line with my preferred field and long-term career goals. I've been there for a little over three months now, I think.

The problem? I'm still getting the "new jobs" e-mail, and there's a listing for a PR associate at the local theatre/performing arts center. It's not my "dream job," but it is back in my field, and it's writing and pitching stories - not updating catalog pages, taking product photos, and answering phones and taking orders. Plus, it would be a step up the ladder, at least from the sound of the ad. So, I'm trying to decide if it's unethical to apply/interview for this position. I don't want to job hop; I don't want to burn bridges; I don't want to seem ungrateful for the chance they took on me. (After all, I'm not a graphic designer, and that's what most of my responsibilities include now.) But I also don't see a long-term career there. So, what do you think? Is three months too soon? (I have until the end of the month to get my things in order and apply for this new job... decisions, decisions!)

 

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re: Decisions, decisions...

Personally, I think you have to do what is best for you.  Being in the business world, people come and go.  All you have to do ethically is give two weeks notice before you move on.  You can never burn bridges that way, at least that is my opinion.  If this current job is not your passion or even in your field and you find another job to get you closer to your dream, then by all means apply for it!  If your current company was in financial hardship, do you think they would feel bad about letting you go?  Probably not.  I don't mean to sound heartless, but you need to do what will make you happy!  I hope you find your dream job real soon!  Good luck!

Posted by Nancy&Mark    Monday, July 21, 2008 6:23 AM


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Go for it!  In business you need to look out for yourself and there is nothing unethical about applying for a job in your field if you feel it gets your foot in the door.  I think Nancy raises a good point too in that if the company you're with now was suffering financially they would let you go if it was the right business decision.  Sure they'd feel bad about it but the company would be foremost what they'd worry about.  Do the same for yourself.  Think of yourself as AirRockinGuitar Inc!

Posted by iamcdn    Monday, July 21, 2008 6:59 AM


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I would apply.  My job is there and it's OK, but if/when I find a better offer I will take it.  You have to look out for # 1 in your job.  You can do it in such a way that is fair to your current employer and that way you make strong connections for later.  But.... It's a personal decision, and you have to do what's best for you.

Posted by Ashley T    Monday, July 21, 2008 8:06 AM


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I would apply if it sounds like a better fit.  Even though this company hired you, you don't have to tie yourself there out of obligation.  Even if they get upset, you have to look out for you, but I understand why you feel torn.  I worked for a small company when I was in college, when I had to move on, I liked everyone so much, I felt guilty for leaving, but it was best for me, and ultimately, it was the right decision.

Posted by MandyE-worth    Monday, July 21, 2008 8:14 AM


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Apply and see what happens.  You don't want to regret not knowing if you would have gotten it.  I would take the best job, not worry about bridges as much.

Posted by edmo    Monday, July 21, 2008 1:38 PM


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