Ok, I am new to this....newlywed with baby on the brain
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Monday, March 31, 2008 5:14 PM
Hello fellow nesties...I am a newlywed like most everyone else on here is, which why I decided I wanted to get more involved with this website. I am on myspace as well, but it doesn’t' really satisfy me...plus I feel like is way to public to blog in and be myself in...there are lot of weirdoes out there...on here I know everyone on here is going through the same life changes as me, and is interest in the same things.. Life...Husbands...Babies....Houses...Families...etc...
So here I am. I got married Nov 3, 2007. We had a beautiful blue and white afternoon wedding and reception followed by a week honeymoon in Isla Mujiers, Mexico...we then had to hurry home for my sister-in-laws wedding (which is another story in itself ....engaged on the same day, married a week apart...I run parallel life’s with a very competitive person, but some how we have been able to be friends through-out it, there were some questionable events that happened, but I had to be the bigger bride and get over it!!!). Anyway, the hubby and I have have a goal of being out of our apartment in 1 year from our wedding date. (We hate our apartment, due to being robbed the 2 month we lived there!) We are lucky and are out of all debt with the exception of cars...let's see what other back story should I spill?? I love being married and being a wife. I love to cook, and drink wine while I cook, much to my hubby's dismay (the wine that is)...I enjoy late lunches with friends and enjoying the weather.
I have baby on the brain already...is that normal? We have been married for 5 months. We are both alittle older than the average newlywed-I assume this btw (hubby is 30, and I am 29 in August)...we both knew we wanted kids early on...and we want 3 or 4, but I never thought within 4 months of marriage I would have it constantly on my mind! I haven't talked to the Hubby about it yet, but Friday when I got home from work he said "your all glowing, are you pregnant?" While I know I am not...I startled me, and it was the perfect opportunity to bring up baby on the brain...I chickened out! Am I normal to be thinking babies already? Oh, the kicker here...my SIL (that got engaged the same day and married a week later)...is constantly asking..."when are you guys going to start trying" I always reply "in a year" and her remark "us too" (everything we do, they happen to be doing it to within the same timeline as us) Now...sharing wedding planning sucked...I do not want to share pregnancy too!!! I can't even imagine the drama that would unfold. I actually can't imagine the drama that will occur if I do get pregnant before her either...she is that competitive that she might think I did it on purpose to beat her...oh the joys of my life ahead of me.