taking charge of my fertility and my medical bills and my sanity

Posted Thursday, April 12, 2007 2:45 PM

Okay, update on the $200 medical bill.  I talked to the doctor's office, and they can usually change an insurance claim description, but they had already sent the paperwork to their billing department, and it was too late to change anything at that point.  They did feel bad because they didn't know my insurance wouldn't cover it and would have submitted it differently had they known.  So they are allowing me to cut 50% off the bill, so now I only owe $100.  I can handle that.  At least they are being accomodating. 

Secondly, I went to the library yesterday and checked out the new edition of Taking Charge of Your Fertility.  I don't know why I thought that book would be an easy, brochure-type reading.  I was so surprised at how big that book is!  Over 450 pages.  It's due back at the library on May 2nd, so I have some serious reading to do.  Chris thinks it's cute I got that book.  He says that this is going to be my new thing.  I always need a thing to do or plan or research.  So he thinks it's cute I've taken this on as a project.  He calls me "Fertility Girl" right now, just like he called me "Lemon Drop" when I was doing the Master Cleanse.  He's cute.

And to maintain my sanity, I just keep thinking about the cruise I'm going to be on in a week and a half!  I had to force my husband to go on this cruise with me (he hates to take off work).  We booked this particular cruise because DH's cousin and his wife are taking it because their friend is getting married on the boat.  We're going because I really wanted to take a cruise and this was a great opportunity to enjoy a trip with other people that we have fun with.  And since I'm photographing another of DH's cousin's wedding on our anniversary in three weeks, I think I deserve a cruise as an early anniversary trip.  However, the bride on the cruise boat, knowing that I'm going to be there during the wedding, asked if I would take pictures of her wedding for her.  I don't mind at all, that's what I do and I know I will take great pictures for them, but I was not at all planning on taking my nice camera on this trip.  It's too heavy and bulky and I don't want to risk losing it or damaging it.  But I am going to do that favor for her and suffer through carrying that heavy camera.  She deserves amazing wedding photos, and I know the boat-designated photographer (part of her wedding package) will not do them justice.

Anyway, details of the cruise: going to Nassau, CocoCay (a Royal Caribbean private island), and Key West.  Leaving Sunday April 23rd, staying in Miami overnight, then boarding for the cruise at 10:30 am on Monday morning.  Most guests don't get to start boarding until after 1 pm, but since we're going to the wedding which is scheduled at 1, we get to board way before the rest of the cruise passengers!  That in itself is worth taking their wedding pictures!

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re: taking charge of my fertility and my medical bills and my sanity

Hooray for the cruise!  I did one as a graduation trip (for my M.A.) with some friends back in 2005, and it was so much fun.  I keep telling DH that we need to do one.  I'm so glad that the dr. was accomodating...and it sounds like you have not become "that woman," which is definitely good news.  I love that you dive into "projects."  I'm exactly the same way... if there are at least 2 of us, then it's normal, right?  

Posted by AnnaLuvsJer    Thursday, April 12, 2007 9:54 AM


re: taking charge of my fertility and my medical bills and my sanity

I'm glad you got something worked out with the doc. office.  At least they helped you out some!  Your cruise sounds like it will be fabulous!  I hope you have tons of fun!!

Posted by kassiejd    Thursday, April 12, 2007 10:11 AM


re: taking charge of my fertility and my medical bills and my sanity

Glad you (somewhat) got that medical bill issue resolved!  You're right, at least they did a little something to help you out.  Better than them not caring at all!  Have an awesome time on the cruise!!!!  That's really nice of you to be doing the photos for them, I am sure it will mean so much to them to have better photos.  So, you are a wedding photographer as your career?  That sounds like a fun job to me!

Posted by MeganAndDavid    Friday, April 13, 2007 11:31 AM


re: taking charge of my fertility and my medical bills and my sanity

Glad that you got some money knocked off of your bill!  TCOYF is really a book you have to be in the mood for - it can be a bit overwhelming!

The cruise sounds like a blast!  Lucky girl =)

I go to the RE today - wish me luck!

-Kali

Posted by citygirl_    Tuesday, April 17, 2007 6:25 AM


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