Must Stop Working

Posted Monday, June 11, 2007 10:48 AM

This weekend was really crazy.  I got into a fight with Chris on Friday night because he went out with his mom, leaving me alone to work on the basement.  I was fine with him going out for a bit, but when he didn't come home until 10:30 pm, and I knew he'd head straight to bed since he had to work the next morning, I wasn't happy.  Especially since I had found all this Simpsons stuff at Target (he's a crazy Simpsons maniac) and put it together in this cool Simpsons gift bag with a guitar playing Homer on the front with the words "You're never too old to Rock" but he didn't even notice it sitting on the counter for him.  So he left for work on Saturday morning and didn't even say goodbye, making me more upset.  I had a wedding to work that morning and I wasn't home until evening.  I was so exhausted, but I still went downstairs and painted more in the basement.  Finally, when hunger became too much to bare, Chris offered to take me out to dinner.  We changed and went to Longhorn, and we actually had a really nice time, considering the fight the night before.  We talked about things we've never talked about, and I learned so much about him.  We laughed a lot.  While I didn't necessarily just want to go right home after dinner, it was a good idea since I'd already had two glasses of wine and was so tired.  We watched some tv with the dogs, Chris finally saw his Simpsons gift bag full of Simpsons goodies, and then went to bed.  Sunday was busy too because we woke up and started working right away in the basement, but then I had to leave at 1 pm to photograph a baseball game.  When I got back home around 5:30, I worked more in the basement and was so tired that I could barely eat dinner.  That's okay though because when I got up to check on something, one of my dogs found the chicken to be more than appetizing and stole it right off my plate!  While the weekend was non-stop working, I'm so glad painting is almost done in the basement!  Chris and I are looking at carpet today after work.  Also, I have an interview on Wednesday for a job I really want, so wish me luck if you read this.  Oh, and for those who read my previous blog, I gave Chris the list, and I think it might be useful - he actually read it, so that's a huge start!

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re: Must Stop Working

WOW you are a busy woman!!  I hope Chris starts to do some of those things on your list to him!  I am glad you two got to go out to dinner and spend some time together Saturday night!  Best of luck on your job interview!!!  I hope you get it!!

Posted by MeganAndDavid    Monday, June 11, 2007 11:40 AM


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Hope your job interview goes well. Keep us updated on it! I'll keep you in my prayers!!

Posted by amandag56    Monday, June 11, 2007 1:02 PM


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Hey - thank you for your kind words and good luck with the job.

Posted by JackieMac824    Monday, June 11, 2007 1:03 PM


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Good luck with the job.  And I hope that you can both slow down your work activitites and get to spend some more QT together.

Posted by Echloe    Tuesday, June 12, 2007 2:49 PM


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Rene, you've gotta slow down!  I understand how great it is to feel like you're accomplishing lots of things (and your basement really sounds like its coming along great), but what about the general sense of peace/calm that you need (well, I need it anyway) in order to be happy every day?  Maybe you should set aside just one or two hours per week where you do absolutely nothing on your to-do list/s....and maybe in that time Chris could do something for you from HIS list!  I figure there's plenty of time to be the manic, no-time-to-relax woman once you have a baby - until then you've got to take a bit of time out once in a while!  Anyway, best of luck for the job interview (how could they not want to hire a go-getter like you?).

Posted by KiwiJ    Tuesday, June 12, 2007 3:33 PM


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You guys sound like us (down to the Simpsons lovin' husband, even)!  DH and I always have some of our most meaningful conversations after we spat.  People always talk about how great makeup sex is (and I suppose they're right), but for me, what I really appreciate is the makeup talk.  BTW, this is is AnnaLuvsJer under a new name (lost my automatic password/email complete and couldn't ever figure out how to get back into my old account.)  Anyway, I have a new blog at http://callmeannabella.blogspot.com/  I hope you'll still read it if you have time; I always appreciate your comments.  

Posted by AnnaAnnaAnna    Wednesday, June 13, 2007 8:43 PM


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