Errrrr...Did I or Didn't I...and When?

Posted Monday, October 22, 2007 1:01 PM

I chart.  I didn't want to chart.  I wanted to be that girl who just goes off birth control, has lots of sex, wakes up one day and realizes she hasn't started her period yet, takes a pregnancy test, and wha-la is happily jumping up and down with her husband because she's having a baby.

But turns out, that is so not me.  I'm a charter.  I actually like to know what's going on.  I want to be on top of things at all times.  It's like a science experiment for me, and I genuinely look forward to waking up each morning and taking my temperature, entering it online, and seeing what the magical folks at FF have to say about my cycle.

Right now though, I'm a bit frustrated because my chart is showing that I ovulated, but it changes the ovulation date daily based on new temperatures I've entered.  I find myself chart-obsessed, entering imaginary future temperatures just to see what FF might change.  I know I can't do anything about it...I can't change when I ovulated based on what FF says...I either did or I didn't and it's done now...nothing more I can do.  But did I on cycle day 12, 13, or 16?  FF can't decide, not until more information is received. 

I want to just leap into the future mornings of the next week or so, see what my temperature will be those days, and record it so I know what the official word on the matter is, then jump back to today and just rest assured knowing what the future is going to hold.  Since that's not possible, I guess I'll just stay chart-obsessed until my blood test on Saturday tells me whether or not I in fact ovulated.  Then it's another week after that before I know if my period is coming or if I am in fact pregnant, the reason for all this nonsense in the first place.

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re: Errrrr...Did I or Didn't I...and When?

I have a feeling that I'm going to be right there with you in about 2 wks or less girl. So today is day 53 and i've yet to have my period for c4... and its clearly not coming ANYTIME soon... so my doc said last week "call me back if its 56 days or more and you'vev yet to have a period. I dont know what the magic number 56 is all about! Its clear something is WRONG w/ my body and I'm not pregnant. Soo... I completly feel your frusturations girl!! Hang in there, hopefully your test will show something on Saturday and this will all make more sense!

Posted by amandag56    Monday, October 22, 2007 2:14 PM


re: Errrrr...Did I or Didn't I...and When?

I know I am totally not the charting type, but if I am just simply not getting pregnant after awhile once we start trying, I am sure I'd do it hardcore.  I hope it starts to give better answers soon.

Posted by Choensa    Monday, October 22, 2007 8:07 PM


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