Back to feeling good (jumbled)
Posted
Thursday, May 15, 2008 4:39 PM
It's been a rough couple of days. First I started my period so that makes any situation just that more difficult to deal with because I am such an irrational mess. Second, money has been tight and that has been ALL I have been able to think about.
So, Tuesday we had dentist appointments. I had to leave work early (as did Jamie). When I picked him up I told him that I had revisited our budget and that on paper we were X dollars in the hole every month. Well, he didn't like that and neither did I. Needless to say not many words were spoken on our way home. When we get home I go upstairs to change and get ready to go to the dentist. Jamie stays outside to review our budget ( I had printed off what I had found). When he comes upstairs he says to me "I am not talking about this with you because this is how problems start". WTF?!? Immature much?? So I respond "You can't sweep in under the rug either!" Well, to make a long story short we are getting along ok but nothing has been resolved in terms of our budget.
Jamie seems to have this idea in his head that because he works during the week nothing else can be done. We can't discuss money, do our grocery shopping or anything. Now, I kind of understand this because he leaves early and doesn't get home until relatively late but at the same time life keeps going during the week and there are certain things that HAVE to be dealt with. I have a feeling that this weekend could be quite eventful...and I am not talking about the baseball game.
Sorry this has been so all over the place but I'm still trying to get it all straight in my head.