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Wednesday, May 16, 2007 6:12 PM

Q: Should we tell people we’re trying to have a baby?

A: This is something you and your mate should sit down and discuss. There’s no right or wrong answer – it’s just a matter of what would be best in your particular situation. Announcing that you’re TTC may open the door to your sex life that you both would prefer remain closed. (Also think about whether or not you’re ready to talk ovulation with your MIL.) On the other hand, deciding to share the good news could mean that you receive a lot of love and support, which may help ease any lingering jitters. Make a list of the pros and cons of telling people you’re trying to have a baby. Then look over both lists and decide what’s right for you.

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re: Q: Should we tell people we’re trying to have a baby?

DH and I are going to start trying soon.  I've told people now that we hope to be expecting before i turn 26, but that's all.  I doubt I'll say when specifically.  I think it'll only add to stress and increase "so are you yet" questions.  I don't know when i'll tell either so I hope to avoid asking for those questions to be asked by telling people we're trying.

Posted by CarynPatrick    Friday, February 08, 2008 7:38 PM


re: Q: Should we tell people we’re trying to have a baby?

I personally would not tell people because they may feel inclined to ask if you are pregnant more frequently if they know you are trying.  This could become extremely frustrating if it takes longer than expected to get pregnant.

Posted by leewilliamstk    Tuesday, September 09, 2008 3:56 PM


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