http://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/blogs/relationships/archive/2008/09/11/my-husband-s-best-friend-just-started-dating-someone-new-and-neither-of-us-can-stand-her-how-do-we-deal.aspxThe solution here is simple: Don’t hang out with her. Coordinating the chaotic schedules of four people who want to get together is almost next to impossible, so it won’t arouse any suspicion should you suddenly become unavailable. Meanwhile, your husbandenCommunityServer 2.1 SP1 (Build: 61120.2)