May 2007 - Posts

Tuesday, May 08, 2007 4:34 PM

Q. Too much sex?

Q. I was just curious if there is such a thing as having too much sex. My husband and I have sex at least once a day, and sometimes more. We’ve been going

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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 4:33 PM

Q. Faking orgasms?

Q. I am a 30 year old female and I'm only able to orgasm a specific way when I masturbate (on my stomach with a pillow). I've been faking orgasms with

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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 4:31 PM

Q. He doesn't orgasm?

Q. Sometimes my husband does not orgasm. I feel abnormal, but he insists it's him and not me. I have offered to try anything, but it is constantly rejected.

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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 4:29 PM

Q. Low self-image?

Q. My wife has never been very sexually active. She doesn't feel comfortable about her body and appearance. This all is getting in the way of getting going


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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 4:27 PM

Q. Premature ejaculation?

Q. My husband struggles with premature ejaculation. What can we do about this? A. You two can do a lot. For your part, you need to build his confidence

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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 4:26 PM

Q. Orgasm without oral?

Q. My husband is only able to orgasm during oral sex. He tries and wants to climax while inside of me, but he hasn’t yet. He doesn’t have trouble sustaining

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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 4:24 PM

Q. New positions to try?

Q. We always end up in missionary position. What else should we try? A. I'm glad you asked this question, as there are many variations on the missionary

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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 4:23 PM

Q. Making it less painful?

Q. My husband loves oral sex but it takes him a very long time to orgasm. My jaw starts to get tired and sore! Is there anything I can do to make it less

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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 4:21 PM

Q. Speeding up climax?

Q. It takes me a very long time to climax. Normally, we'll be 30 minutes into sex and I may or may not have had an orgasm. My husband was my first and

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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 4:17 PM

Q. Normal to not masturabte?

Q. Is it normal for men to not masturbate? The reason I ask is because I have a very high sex drive, while my husband is the complete opposite. He is tired

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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 4:16 PM

Q. Neutral sex drive?

Q. Help! I often see and hear about people being "in the mood," and I never have that feeling naturally. My sex drive is stuck in neutral. How can I fix

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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 4:13 PM

Q. Feeling comfortable on top?

Q. I am heavier than my husband and I find it quite difficult to be on top of him during intercourse. This, however, is the position he prefers. Is there

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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 4:12 PM

Q. Self-conscious about baby weight?

Q. I am currently six months pregnant and have an out-of-whack sex drive. As soon as my husband and I get started, I get self-conscious and don't want

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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 4:09 PM

Q. Dwindling sex life?

Q. My husband and I used to make love every day, maybe several times a day, before we got married. Then after the wedding, things dwindled down. I am lucky

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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 4:07 PM

Q. Spicing things up?

Q. I want to spice up our sex life and keep things new and fresh, but I don't know what to do. I've read many of your other suggestions, but my husband

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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 4:06 PM

Q. Insecure about vibrator?

Q. My husband is afraid of me using a vibrator, because he's worried it will replace him. How can I make him more comfortable with the idea? A. Many men

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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 4:04 PM

Q. Why won't he initiate?

Q. When my hubby and I first started being intimate, he initiated sex more often than I did. Now that it has been a few years, I am the one who wants it


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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 3:59 PM

Q. Curved penis?

Q. My husband has a curve in his penis, and this makes it difficult for us to have sex comfortably. What should we do? Can you recommend any positions

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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 3:51 PM

Q. Sex when pregnant?

Q. I am almost 5 months pregnant and my husband and I have had sex only one time, since discovering the good news. I don't know if he is turned off, although

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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 3:48 PM

Q. Why does it hurt?

Q. Sometimes it hurts when we have sex. Is there something wrong with me? A. It depends on what sort of pain you're experiencing. If it's after vigorous

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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 3:46 PM

Q. Making time for sex?

Q. Before we were married you couldn't drag us out from under the sheets. After our wedding, it seems we never get around to having sex anymore. What gives?


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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 3:44 PM

Q. Getting old passion back?

Q. My wife has an extensive collection of enticing lingerie, but since the birth of our second child she's stopped wearing it. Part of me wonders if she

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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 3:42 PM

Q. Best positions to get pregnant?

Q. My husband and I plan to try to get pregnant at the end of the summer. Are there any tricks to the trade that we should know? Are there any positions

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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 3:41 PM

Q. Making sex fun?

Q. My sex drive is much greater than my husband's. I've half heartedly tried to dress up in sexy lingerie and heels and got a "What are you doing?" and

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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 3:39 PM

Q. Loss of erection?

Q. Recently my husband -- who isn't very old -- hasn't been able to maintain his erection. What could be the cause? A. One in 10 men experience some type

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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 3:38 PM

Q. Other toys?

Q. I’m not so into vibrators, are there any other toys I can try out in the bedroom? A. There are loads of toys to try in the bedroom. Why not go online

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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 3:24 PM

Q. No sex drive after baby?

Q. Ever since I had a baby nothing really seems to get my libido going. It seems like my mind wanders during sex, and I can't focus on feeling good. What

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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 12:22 PM

Q. Small penis complex?

Q. I think my husband has a small-penis complex. He always makes comments, and has apologized for his size. I don't feel there is anything wrong with his


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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 12:19 PM

Q. Depression affecting sex life?

Q. Before we got married I noticed that my husband started to put on some weight. He's not tremendously overweight, but I do think he may also be battling


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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 12:17 PM

Q. Choosing masturbation over me?

Q. My husband and I have only been married for six months and I already feel like our sex life is suffering. We sometimes go several days without having

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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 12:15 PM

Q. Best position to orgasm?

Q. What's the best sex position for my wife to orgasm? A. The "coital alignment technique," or C.A.T., is fantastic for women who find it hard to orgasm.

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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 12:14 PM

Q. Wrong to expect this?

Q. I am currently 7.5 months pregnant and my husband has told me that he is just not attracted to my belly. It hurts to hear this, but I appreciate his

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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 12:12 PM

Q. Okay to desire other people?

Q. Is it normal to love your spouse and enjoy having sex with her, but still desire other women -- and want to have sex with them? A. It is absolutely


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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 12:10 PM

Q. Supposed to hurt?

Q. Is there any way, besides having children, to stretch out your vagina? Whenever my husband and I have sex, it always takes so long for him to penetrate

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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 11:57 AM

Q. Enticing my husband?

Q. My husband gives me oral sex -- begrudgingly. Is there anything I can do to entice him? A. Sometimes men worry about the taste. Invite him in for a

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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 11:54 AM

Q. Destined for horrible sex life?

Q. My husband doesn't want to have sex with me. We saved ourselves for marriage, the honeymoon was barely lukewarm, and now, seven months later, he'd rather


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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 11:37 AM

Q. Making it more pleasureable?

Q. My husband complains that he cannot feel me during sex and I'm wondering if it is possible to stretch the vagina out so much so that it does not return


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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 11:35 AM

Q. Role-playing?

Q. We want to experiment with role-playing, but we don’t know where to begin. A. Many couples worry about taking the first step in role-play. The very

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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 11:33 AM

Q. Worried about pornography?

Q. My husband prefers sex 4-5 times per week and for me 2 times is fine. Because of this, he has to masturbate and often uses magazines or DVDs to do so.

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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 11:30 AM

Q. How can I focus?

Q. I am very stressed out and have anxiety problems. This makes getting in the mood really difficult. And sometimes when we start having sex, I lose my


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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 11:27 AM

Q. Feeling sexy?

Q. My husband and I have each put on a few pounds since we got married. What can we do to help ourselves feel sexy while we try to lose those extra pounds?


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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 11:25 AM

Q. Enjoying oral sex?

Q. I have never felt very comfortable with giving oral sex, and I don't feel very good at it. I have a sensitive gag-reflex and I always feel bad if I

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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 11:23 AM

Q. Pregnant when menstruating?

Q. Ok, so once and for all: Can you get pregnant when you're menstruating? A. Technically you could. However, this is actually incredibly rare, since you

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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 11:20 AM

Q. Trying a threesome?

Q. My husband has this crazy fantasy of a threesome. I'm really uncomfortable about it, is there some way to meet in the middle? A. You can definitely

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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 11:18 AM

Q. Using sex?

Q. How do you tell if you have a high sex drive or you just want sex to feel wanted, needed, and loved? I always seem to want sex -- always. I never turn