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Tuesday, May 08, 2007 11:35 AM

Q. Role-playing?

Q. We want to experiment with role-playing, but we don’t know where to begin.

A. Many couples worry about taking the first step in role-play. The very best starting place is to choose a fantasy that turns you both on. For example, do you fantasize about being picked up by a stranger? Then meet in a bar, restaurant, hotel lobby, etc., where you’ve never been. Pretend to be strangers and start flirting. Give yourselves fake names and get more outrageous about having a night of no-strings sex! Then go off to your home or check into a room for the night and keep up the pretense. Use this basic recipe for creating any role-play.

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Posted by sexy role play ideas being a baby    Tuesday, April 08, 2008 11:07 PM


re: Q. Role-playing?

if you like the classic school girl affect [most men can't resist a good plaid miniskir and pig-tails], try having him be a "detention teacher." you can do this in your own home and ad-lib. I've noticed in personal experience role-playing tends to base on who is more dominant in bed... if he likes to control, let him.... and vice versa. you can hit up your local adult shop for costumes and ideas.

a simple way to start? spring it on them. they just get home, and your dressed up, rearing to go. find out what interests them rp-wise by asking them about thier fantasies when they were younger.... a teacher? nurse? police officer? maid? it can get as deep and dirty as you want to let it go.

with I've also noticed with RPing you might want to make sure you have a stop word as well, so your partner knows when enough is enough.

have fun!

Posted by deminion_777    Monday, August 11, 2008 2:45 AM


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