Am I allergic to sex?

re: Am I allergic to sex?

meeshymoo — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 04:43:54 GMT

what if i am not stressed, busy, or anything like that, what if i just don't ever feel like having sex, and it always feels like a chore still?

re: Am I allergic to sex?

danigiirl024 — Sun, 12 Oct 2008 04:49:18 GMT

I don't have an answer for you but can totally relate. I love my husband. Ad I do find him attractive. And when we do have sex its great. But its just getting to that point that "is the chore" I am just never "in the mood"

re: Am I allergic to sex?

nse712 — Wed, 05 Nov 2008 16:23:53 GMT

I've read several books and most of them say that when men don't have sex for a while, they crave it more, but when women don't have sex for a while, they crave it less. Make it a priority, even a challenge, to have sex with your husband every other day to every day for a month and see if that helps. If it doesn't, then maybe check with your doctor to make sure there isn't something physically wrong (such as horomones) or psychologically wrong (such as regularly feeling disrespected or invalidated by your husband and having that unresolved issue decrease your desire for him).

re: Am I allergic to sex?

Thera1208 — Mon, 15 Dec 2008 05:32:54 GMT

Can antidepressants for anxiety affect a woman's sex drive?

re: Am I allergic to sex?

breannafreeman — Thu, 08 Jan 2009 22:02:33 GMT

Sometimes, this can be one of the signs of sex abuse in a persons past (not all the time, but sometimes). This can be discussed with a qualified therapist and worked out.

re: Am I allergic to sex?

nataliedonovan — Thu, 15 Jan 2009 22:08:32 GMT

I know exactly how you feel...i have no sex drive...it's not that im not attracted to my hubby or that i don't love him cause i do but i just don't have a sex drive...HELP!!!!....

re: Am I allergic to sex?

ScottandCaitlin — Sun, 18 Jan 2009 06:05:46 GMT

Totlly in the same boat. I love my hubby, and i enjoy it during--he always makes sure of that! I just never WANT to before hand...I kind of feel guilty about it, and I know he wants to do it a lot more than we do.

re: Am I allergic to sex?!

mimmyesq — Wed, 21 Jan 2009 00:23:55 GMT

I'm glad that question was asked... because it sounded like me. I could care less for sex and I really couldn't figure out why. Huh! Iits so hard when you have a baby to make time for yourself. But I definitely will go on dates with my hubby. I need my sex drive back!!!