http://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/blogs/sex/archive/2008/08/29/why-is-my-husband-different-after-the-birth-of-our-first-child.aspxQ: My husband says that sex seems different after the birth of our first child. Besides bladder control issues, however, I don’t notice a change. What could it be? He’s being vague. A: You’re experiencing what many men and women do after a baby arrives.enCommunityServer 2.1 SP1 (Build: 61120.2)