http://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/blogs/sex/archive/2008/10/17/how-can-i-get-my-husband-to-perform-oral-sex-on-me.aspxQ: My husband is seriously opposed to performing oral sex. We both love intercourse, and he's wonderful with his hands, but he won't go the oral route. How can I get him to do it? A: Oral sex can be amazing, and more women can climax from it than fromenCommunityServer 2.1 SP1 (Build: 61120.2)http://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/blogs/sex/archive/2008/10/17/how-can-i-get-my-husband-to-perform-oral-sex-on-me.aspx#7704070Thu, 18 Dec 2008 15:59:44 GMTb16960c2-08ff-48dc-93ce-1f3c6b289aa0:7704070wifeyepperson<p>I dated a man once that was opposed to oral sex (going down on me), due to a horrific experience with an ex of his. &nbsp;I wasn't too big on the idea of him going down on me anyways, but the curiosity got the best of me, as the true reason why he wouldn't do it. &nbsp;He said that the woman he did it with, &quot;tasted bad, and smelled funny&quot;, (his words, not mine). &nbsp;What got him to finally experiment with me, was taking a shower together, and using flavored lubes (many to choose from!) and he tried. &nbsp;LOL. tried he did, succeed he did not, he did need some direction on what to do, but all in all, he got over his fear with it, and was able to succeed in orgasm the next time.</p> <p>Don't pressure him into doing something he doesn't want to do, but first find out the real reason as to why he doesn't want to do it.</p>