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Unique Like Everybody Else

Posted Thursday, March 27, 2008 4:26 PM

Maybe this is a long shot … but how unique can your wedding idea be if you heard about it from someone else?

Such is the dilemma of many brides-to-be.

As I peruse magazines and online articles (type in "wedding trends" on Google and you will find nearly 95,000 entries) on the latest and greatest in the world of weddings (a world I can now enjoy as spectator), I can’t help but wonder who is pulling the strings here?

I came across this story that aired on WCIA in Champaign, Ill.:

Check out the irony in this quote from a wedding planner:
"The first question that most brides ask... What can I do to make my wedding different. What's the newest trend and what will make people remember my wedding."

If you are doing the same thing that everyone else is, how in the world is that going to make your wedding different?

"And even classic dresses have a new twist. Gone are the days of the puffy white gown. Now people are even adding color.
'You may see a bride walk down the aisle in a champagne or a pale pink.. and color or a sash in a color.'"[/quote]

I was married in a classic white gown -- the kind that never goes out of style. Again, if all the other brides are wearing color – your idea of adding a pink sash is not as original.
 
Why not be really original – go back to tradition? It’s a big stretch, I know, but sometimes a traditional wedding with a personal touch can be more unique than anything found on the pages of Brides.

Remember: One bride’s trend is another’s trash.

Posted by Shoshie
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Comments

re: Unique Like Everybody Else

It is possible to be original without being trendy - we did it by getting married in a Cessna 172 while in flight. It was perfect for us, but judging from the reactions we get when we tell most people, it's not a trend that'll be catching on anytime soon. :)

Posted by AirGuitarRockin    Thursday, March 27, 2008 3:50 PM


re: Unique Like Everybody Else

I did traditional.  I did a puffy off-white gown.  It was awesome.  I have to admit, my wedding was nothing new, as a matter of fact, we tried to make it older.  Our first dance was to Nevertheless, that was a number one hit way back in the 30's.  People commented on how awesome my wedding was and how much fun they had.  People told me that my traditional wedding was unlike any other they had ever been to.  So I agree 100%.  Traditional is the new unique!

Posted by MandyE-worth    Thursday, March 27, 2008 4:01 PM


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About Shoshie

This Chicagoan turned California girl is all about making people smile -- and I love to plan things. For more about me, and how I'm making my way through Just Married life, Enjoy My Blog: Tales of a Jewish Newlywed.


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