pook:I'm totally one of those people who is against "asking" people to bring gifts...like asking for diapers or something like that. But I LOVE this idea! How cute, and I would love shopping for little categories like that! And you're right, every time I go to a shower they get tons of teensy little clothes, but nothing for when the baby is a little bigger, but still a baby.
Pook, I was so scared to post this (ahhh!!! don't flame me people!!!) but I'm so glad to see your reaction... I'm thinking this might really be cute! FWIW, I'm planning the shower for someone else, it's not my own... ha ha, I thought I might need to clarify that!
I found this site... www.easyscratchoffs.com where you can actually buy clear stickers that have the silver scratch off material and you just place that on top of your "secret messages" - so cool!