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08-29-2008 at 1:47 PM
Sue_sue
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Re: Inviting an ex to the wedding

I would defer, completely and without reservation, to what your FI thinks in this matter. If you suspect, for even one minute, even for a smidgen of a second, that it might bother him, even a tad bit, to have someone you slept with for over 10 years at your wedding, then don't invite the ex.

 
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08-29-2008 at 11:15 PM
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My h invited his ex to our wedding and her not showing up was the best gift she could have gave me. With saying that, he and I dated for two years and she call him crying every so often saying she wanted him back. Ask you fi if he cares and go by that. i didn't even get that respect, she just didn't show.
 
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08-30-2008 at 3:34 AM
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I agree with Maybride2 ! Just wanted you to know I thought your comment was so true.  I always wonder about the people who don't know the bride/groom why do they go?  Just because I know the parents would make me feel like a crasher.  But since you are asking, my answer about the  ex is no.  I think you have heard enought reasons so I'll just say I leave the past in the past.  But I don't invite friends I haven't seen in more than a year either.
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08-30-2008 at 12:37 PM
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Invited an  ex as well as his wife and family.  We keep in contact via email and phonecalls.  We've traveled for first birthday of our kids!    A friends a friend and it sounds like tht what he is.
 
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08-31-2008 at 2:07 AM
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My best friend invited her ex to her wedding. He rsvp'd "yes" and then never showed up on the day of. The same thing happened to me when I invited an old ex of mine to our wedding.

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