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08-28-2008 at 5:09 PM
mrobin73
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Isn't it ironic? Dontcha' think?

LONG- BUT I HAVE TO TELL SOMEONE!!!

Soooo, I am hesitant to write this b/c I'm afraid you will think I'm being catty, but those of you who know the situation will appreciate the irony of the new developments.

 For those of you not from the Region, a friend of mine had her husband cheating on her last year with another girl who was her "friend"- shortly after they each got married. (I'll refer to the guy as the "jacka$$" from now on, and the "friend" as the "Wh0re" from here on out.) Whenever my friend had a fight with the Jacka$$, the Wh0re would listen "sympathetically" while my friend vented (as we all do.) And then the Wh0re would turn around and use the information to backstab and dig her claws in deeper to the jacka$$. "You fought about money again, that's terrible"- as she goes out and buys him a $300 pair of sunglasses- that he wore around his wife!?! The wife finally figured out what was going on, and even tried to work on things, before she woke up and saw the light, and saw he would never change. The Wh0re was mad at the wife for telling her (nice hubby) husband and our circle of friends of the infedelity, and NEVER expressed remorse for violating not only her marriage vows, but also the sacred bond between women. 2 divorces and several months have passed since this all unfolded.

Fast forward to this week. I had a customer come in where I work who happens to work with the Jacka$$. We've gotten to be pretty friendly. The customer told me she can't stand him b/c he lies, and is not a genuine person. He's on probation at work (a state job has you on probation for the first several months) and she says he's probably not going to pass, and will be on probation for an extended period of time if he gets to keep his job at all. He has been overheard telling people at work he's just with the Wh0re b/c she owns her house, and doesn't make him pay for barely anything. He said he had no idea how expensive divorces were, and this way he'll be able to get back on his feet. She (my customer) doesn't know that he has a HUGE problem with debt, but hearing her say this made the fact that they were still together make more sense. She proceeded to tell me that he is already cheating on the Wh0re with another woman. (He has a habit of starting one relationship before finishing the last one, and then acting so poorly that the girl has no choice but to end it herself, thus salving his conscience-"She dumped me, I didn't break her heart by having to dump her," seems to be his logic.)

 I guess it's true what they say-

What comes around goes around.

 

(I'm not a catty person, but if you knew the parties involved- this would make you smile a little brighter.)


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08-28-2008 at 7:03 PM
Labbie
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I agree about what goes around comes around. I am so sorry for the pain your friend had to go through, but it does sound like she is way better off without jacka$$. Sounds like he and wh0re were made for one another.

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08-28-2008 at 8:42 PM
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It's too bad your friend had to endure that.  As trite as it sounds, a leopard never changes its spots.  I hope she recovers well enough to not be too terribly tarnished by his jacka$$ antics.

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08-29-2008 at 6:02 AM
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it does suck she had to go through it.. (the good friend). But like they say.. "once a cheater, always a cheater"..drrrr..

the "perfect" ending to this LIfetime drama would be for her to get "pregnant" to keep her man! KLASSIC!  


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08-29-2008 at 6:25 AM
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Totally.  Karma is a ***.

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08-29-2008 at 6:57 AM
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LadyRed7:


the "perfect" ending to this LIfetime drama would be for her to get "pregnant" to keep her man! KLASSIC!  

Hmmm..that would be the "perfect"....a little sasquash.. 


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08-29-2008 at 7:10 AM
mrobin73
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LadyRed7:

it does suck she had to go through it.. (the good friend). But like they say.. "once a cheater, always a cheater"..drrrr..

the "perfect" ending to this LIfetime drama would be for her to get "pregnant" to keep her man! KLASSIC!  

It'll either be that or the even Klassier- Fake "pregnancy" followed by a fake miscar. If she does claim to get knocked up, I'll have to wait and see an ultrasound or something to believe it- b/c she is so classlesss that she's use his known Guilt complex after the inevitable fake mc to keep them together. CRAZY I TELL YOU!


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08-29-2008 at 8:04 AM
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Nice. I wouldn't call it ironic though. I've known very, very few situations in which someone cheats or lies where they don't do it again. It makes me sad for everyone involved. :(





 
08-29-2008 at 4:24 PM
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It's a horribly sickening situation.  And for the two innocent parties, my heart goes out to them.  I hope, in the end, they are the ones who find the ultimate happiness because they dam* sure deserve that.  I know both people and they are very, very sweet people.  I often wondered why the one was with her (I knew him in high school) but I thought it was because I didn't like her anyway.Hmm 

 

Two years ago I couldn't have imagined this even with the best of Lifetime staff!

 

Karma is a b!tch and I hope he gets some sort of STD and his penis falls off and she ends up alone in the house with a million cats.  I hate how they parade their relationship too, they deserve whatever comes to them.
 

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