j&lo82907:I wouldnt worry about DH thinking your a sicko!! Every man (whether you witness it or not) watches porn.. my hubby will swear that he doesn't and I try to keep the fact I do on ocassion from him.. but we catch eachother once in awhile... and thats normal... everyone does it!
Just tell him if you feel you want to. He will probably be the most upset about the fact you made a big deal about him doing it when you were watching it the whole time!
Um, then why lie about it to eachother? This is NOT normal. If you say you don't but you do, you are lying to your partner and potentially hurting them and your relationship. If it's not a big deal that you guys do 'catch' eachother why not just say, "Hey, we both watch porn. It's something we do for ourselves and masturbation, not as a couple, but that's OK."
It's not like you need to announce whenever you've masturbated or tell one another before hand/afterwards or quiz one another to find out when and to what. But at least be honest that you do it.
OP, if this isn't MUD, you need to come clean to your H about your lying and hypocrisy and apologize, and then work on your relationship. You sound like a control freak and pulling crap like this is NOT okay. The issue is not "omg is it wrong that I love porn", it's that you're fake and a liar to your own husband.