I've been on the pill for 12 years ... and I have also recently had issues with my sex drive. I enjoy sex but not as much as I used to. DH is very supportive and I appreciate that, but I want to get this figured out so we can go back to the happy sex life we've enjoyed for years. My Doctor suggested that I try going off the pill. It's been a couple weeks now and I haven't noticed any major changes yet, but my Doc also said that's normal.
DH and I don't have kids yet, but we want to within the next few years. I realized that I have been on the pill longer than I've been off it.