Jimmyjamsgirl:Just enjoy the closeness. Sex doesn't always have to be a long drawn out process. I love a quickie in the morning before FI goes to work, he leaves a happy guy and I am almost guaranteed he will return the favor when he gets home. Sex should be about an emotional connection to your partner, not just about having an orgasm. You can do that yourself LOL.
This is us. We do a lot of morning quickies, and I'm not usually worked up enough to have an orgasm right after I wake up (unless I was having a sexy dream, which doesn't happen often). I'm okay with that, because my DH always gets me good when I'm ready for it.