My wife is a couple months pregnant and has a hematoma which means she cannot have sex and is put on modified best rest. She can do most everything as normal except lifting or exercising. My question is this. I have a very high sex drive and she doesn't. Since this news she has pleasured me maybe 6 to 8 times in the last 5 weeks. She told me tonight that until she is realeased from her medical thing that I should just take care of myself if needed. She said that she doesn't want me getting frustrated waiting for her to do something to me. Am I being insensitive to her or is she holding way too much power?
Your wife has a medical condition, and she is also pregnant.
And you're concerned that she's weilding power.
Mister, are you kidding me? Truly and honestly: are you kidding me?
She is right: DIY!
And I cannot stand that "I have a high sex drive and she doesn't..." it's like you're bragging or she's trying to slight you or she's not good enough for you or something.
And until she's given the medical go ahead for you to get "the real thing", keep DIY.