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04-08-2008 at 3:10 PM
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VENT:I HATE DH FAMILY!

So dh Aunt & uncle when to come out here the first weekend in June 5-9 Which means they will be here for the BIG GTG! I told them that we had plans that weekend Can the come the weekend before or the weekend after & she goes NO because hte PRice it to high! Well I am looking at the flight she was booking & there is like a $20 diff from the first weekend in june & the second weekend!  So I talk to Dh this weekend & he is suppose to call His UNcle to talk to him. Well His Aunt IMs me & goes DId you Cancel your Plans for that weekend BEcause we got Tickets & are comeing out! I told her That my Dh was going to Call them & talk about it! Well She goes I guess you guys are paying us Back for the tickets since i got them on Sunday night since you never answer me back! So i took it has it was ok to come out!!

She e-mailed Sunday morning!  So I called Dh & told him he needs to Deal with this ASAP!! He is in Meeting all day today & tomorrow!! I don;t to deal with theses people anymore!! IM about to scream & on top of it all I am PMSING!!!

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04-08-2008 at 3:21 PM
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I say that if they are going to behave this way then you can allow them to come that weekend...but still go to your GTG and let them fend for themselves for an afternoon. 
04-08-2008 at 3:31 PM
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I agree with PKW, they knew you had plans and no one ever said that visiting meant you had to cancel your plans. I say you should allow them to come, visit, whatever, but the day of your GTG let them know in advance that you will be gone that day for whatever times and you can meet them for dinner or something later in the night. I am sure they can entertain themselves for one single afternoon, they are adults afterall.
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I agree with the two previous posters. They can do some sight seeing during the day.

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04-08-2008 at 3:35 PM
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I'm sorry to hear that you're dealing with this. Hopefully your DH can work out a solution. But, I LOVE that nestiepalooza is so popular that it's causing drama!

 
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sorry i should explain a little more! they will get here thursday afternoon. Dh has to work thursday & friday, So that mean i will have to take them place & do stuff with them! Also Saturday We(dh, dd & me)are Going to to Visit Friends just moved here from Ohio to the air force base off 80. So we Will not be around all weekend which means they will be Sitting in our Apt! Since They are not renting a car because it cost to much $!

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04-08-2008 at 3:38 PM
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Wow..so sorry you're dealing with this. I hate family drama. I also agree with PKW...have them out, but still come to the big GTG. If she complains, say "well then next time spend the extra $20 for convenience" hahaha

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Most airlines will let you switch your flight for $50. Let him talk to them about it.

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04-08-2008 at 3:57 PM
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Oh, better yet! Bring them to Nestiepalooza. They can visit with DH while you have fun.

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04-08-2008 at 4:03 PM
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Tiki- I was thinking about it but that would mean i would have to take them with us Saturday to our friends house since we are staying at a hotel around there so we are close to the GTg for sunday!

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