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10-26-2009 at 8:19 PM
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Orgasms in dreams?

I have had two in the last week. H and I are having the same amount of sex. I may be a little stressed between school and work, but nothing too bad. The one last night woke me up and then I was up for the day. It's actually kinda  irritating.

Has anyone ever experienced this? Does anyone know anything about it? TIA! 

 
 
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10-26-2009 at 8:27 PM
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Wet dreams don't just happen to 14 year old boys.
 
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10-26-2009 at 9:08 PM
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It stinks that it ruined your sleep. I've had them before, but they put me in a good mood! They were a little embarassing, had to explain to my husband what the moaning was about, but otherwise, pretty awesome. Try strenuous exercise...like hardcore running, if you need a few nights without one.
 
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10-26-2009 at 9:19 PM
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sweetpea023:

It stinks that it ruined your sleep. I've had them before, but they put me in a good mood! They were a little embarassing, had to explain to my husband what the moaning was about, but otherwise, pretty awesome. Try strenuous exercise...like hardcore running, if you need a few nights without one.

The problem last night was I get up at 6:15 and it happened at 5:50 or something...which I know it isn't that much sleep to lose, but I am a light sleeper and have bad insomnia, so any lost sleep is no good. Also I have a feeling it'll wake me up whenever it happens. It's just strange that it happened twice in the last week, and it was even after having good sex so I should have been satisfied lol.

So, I don't mean to sound like a whiner, which I am sure I do. Once in awhile is always a pleasant surprise, but if it happens all the time...well...I don't know if I want that. 

 
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10-26-2009 at 10:12 PM
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I have to admit to being a little bit jealous -- I always seem to wake up just before orgasm, and I wake up frustrated.

That said, it doesn't happen often.  I'm a light, light sleeper as well, so I know how getting woken up from a good sleep can be really, really irksome (just woke up early this morning, sadly from a nightmare, and never got back to sleep before the alarm went off).  I suspect that you won't find it happening all the time.  And I don't blame you for not wanting it to!

When it's all said and done, what matters most is your relationships with other people; without good friends and family, what's the point? 
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10-27-2009 at 12:37 AM
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It happens to me ALOT. I love those dreams, I actually have mastered a little trick to help raise the chance of having one of those dreams. I know this sounds silly but I have certain fantasy setups, I actually have a number of stories like scripts or plays, that I run through my mind before bed and just as often as not I will continue the fantasy into my dream and I find myself waking up having a great big O. 




 
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10-27-2009 at 6:07 AM
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"Has anyone ever experienced this?"

Pretty much everyone has.. it's perfectly natural.

It doesn't matter how much sex you are having.. it can happen to anyone at any time. This isn't something you grow out of after puberty, though it can decrease a bit.

It sucks that it screwed you out of some sleep, but there isn't much you can do about it... it is perfectly natural.

 
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10-27-2009 at 7:59 AM
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I think this is normal,..however, it might be a good idea to think back about the content of the dreams that led up to orgasm.   Was there anything which particularly turned you on that does not happen when you have sex?   Just becaue someone gets lots of sex does not mean they are being sexually fullfilled.
 
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10-27-2009 at 9:01 AM
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The_Quiet_One:

I have to admit to being a little bit jealous -- I always seem to wake up just before orgasm, and I wake up frustrated.

I've had that happen to me too!  However, I've also woke up having an orgasm and don't remember dreaming about sex.  But I know I have sexomnia, where I do sexual things in my sleep.

 
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10-27-2009 at 11:18 AM
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ama1221:
The_Quiet_One:

I have to admit to being a little bit jealous -- I always seem to wake up just before orgasm, and I wake up frustrated.

I've had that happen to me too!  However, I've also woke up having an orgasm and don't remember dreaming about sex.  But I know I have sexomnia, where I do sexual things in my sleep.

haha! H actually said, "maybe you're dry humping me. I would never know since I am such a hard sleeper." He then proceeded to give me permission to do this any time I want! As if I know what's going on in the first place!

 
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10-27-2009 at 1:02 PM
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it happens alot for me as well.....i think it is fun and definitely interesting when it happens! For me it happens like 3 times a month....not sure why...but I can see why it is bothering you!






 
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10-27-2009 at 4:03 PM
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bel138:
Wet dreams don't just happen to 14 year old boys.

this cracked me up! 
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10-27-2009 at 5:21 PM
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dern, hasn't happened to me in awhile. It used to happen fairly frequently. I also used to be able to control my dreams from time to time, and whenever I could, I could instantly make it happen. That was awesome. Wonder why it stopped darn it!
 
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10-27-2009 at 10:46 PM
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Ohhh I think they are amazing and wish I had more, hehehe!

 
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10-28-2009 at 11:10 AM
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iverske9:
Ohhh I think they are amazing and wish I had more, hehehe!

lol same here! Yes
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11-04-2009 at 2:31 AM
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This just happened to me yesterday!  LOL!  This is the first time I ever didn't wake up before the orgasm part.  Fortunately my DH understands and is all - was it good!?!?! 
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