DH and I are using PreSeed now, which is AWESOME. It's made for TTC, which we are, but I think I would use it even if we werent. I've had a lot of problems with dryness in the past, and NONE since we've been using it.
Other than that, I stick to the basic KY(or store brand) Jelly lube. The liquid seems to not last long enough and I would hurt like a b*tch!
Beward of "heating" lubes. As a woman, they are evil. Heating is good for a man, but can burn us. And flavored/scented lubes get nasty fast. Sticky mess everywhere.