I cut mine short with ordinary scissors once a week. it has nothing to do with sex/love,...It's because I hate the feeling when it gets caught up in clothing and pulls, and for cleanliness,..I have a very active life and hate the feeling of jumping in the car and settign off only to have to wriggle about to get pubic hair free!!
I did shave there once,...only once tho' When the stubble came through it was beyond uncomfortable !!