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11-07-2009 at 7:26 AM
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Taking a break

IUI #3 was a BFN. I woke up this morning to use the bathroom and AF showed up. This BFN has hit me really hard for some reason and all I want to do is curl up and cry, but I don't need to do that. I am to call the RE on Monday to let her know and see what our next step is.

I am thinking about taking this cycle off and maybe next cycle and starting fresh in January. We will see what she says. She may say to keep going since my body is finally getting in rhytem (AF every 30-31 days instead of 40, 60, 70, etc). I think our next step though is injectables and that scares the crap out me...needles and a lot more expensive then Ferema! If she tells me that we need to not take a break then we will listen but if she feels it is okay to take a break until December or January then I think we might do that (haven't talk to DH yet as he is at work today).

I know that I am not on here as much as I have been, but I think I am going to take a break from the boards. I am happy for everyone, but it has been really hard the last couple of weeks to see all the BFP's and think to myself I may never see one. I think mentally for me it might be a good for me to just take a break. This board has been good to me and I have learned, laughed, cried, etc along with all of you and so it will be hard to leave, but I think for my mental and emotional health it might be good. I wish all of you the best and I hope that everyone gets that BFP and know that I will continue to pray for all of you gals.

Hopefully when my mind and body are in a better place I can rejoin you gals.

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11-07-2009 at 7:31 AM
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Heather, I'm so sorry!  You and your dh are in my thoughts and prayers.  I hope you do something fun this weekend and try to relax.  Take as much time as you and your dh need!  I hope your RE has some great advice for you and that it works next time (whenever that is).  Good luck and I'm so sorry!  I hope you'll be back soon to post your own BFP!!
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11-07-2009 at 7:33 AM
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I am so sorry! I wish you the best of luck at your next appointment. I think all the girls will understand if you need a break. We're here for you, I'll keeo you in my prayers!!
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11-07-2009 at 7:41 AM
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Im sorry!  Good Luck with the next appt and good luck with your next step! T&Ps.
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11-07-2009 at 7:42 AM
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I am so sorry for what you are going through.  Everyone needs to take a break every once in a while.  I am hoping for the best for you and your DH!
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11-07-2009 at 7:51 AM
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I'm so sorry Heather, and I totally understand the whole break from the boards feeling. Just remember we'll all still be here when you come back :-)
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11-07-2009 at 8:42 AM
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Heather, I am so sorry.  I can't pretend to know how you feel, but I know it must be so hard.  Your strength astounds me.  If taking a break from TTC and the boards is what you need, then by all means - do it.  Take care of yourself.

Don't give up hope.  You will get your BFP!  And we'll be here to celebrate with you when it happens.  Take care!
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11-07-2009 at 9:20 AM
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EmilyS2:

Heather, I am so sorry.  I can't pretend to know how you feel, but I know it must be so hard.  Your strength astounds me.  If taking a break from TTC and the boards is what you need, then by all means - do it.  Take care of yourself.

Don't give up hope.  You will get your BFP!  And we'll be here to celebrate with you when it happens.  Take care!

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11-07-2009 at 9:43 AM
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I am sorry!  I hope everything works out for you, soon!
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11-07-2009 at 9:51 AM
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I understand, I am thinking of taking a break from TTC until January as well.  It is very difficult to see everyone around me get their BFP.  I hope it happens for both of us soon.  Good Luck, and I hope to see you back with good news!
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11-07-2009 at 10:13 AM
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;( I'm sorry.  You guys are in my T&P's and just remember we are always here for you!

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11-07-2009 at 10:18 AM
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Heather - My thoughts are with you and totally understand if you need a break to focus on yourself. Take as much time as you need - we'll always be here! 

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11-07-2009 at 10:36 AM
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I'm so sorry, Heather.  Please take the time for yourself that you need, and please come back when you feel ready!  We'll miss you.
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11-07-2009 at 11:43 AM
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I'm so sorry things haven't been going your way.  Best of luck in the future, come back when you think you're ready and we'll still be here :)
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11-07-2009 at 5:09 PM
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I am sorry.  T&P for you. 





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11-07-2009 at 8:56 PM
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Late posting this... I'm really sorry to hear what you're going through...  I've got you in my t&p's and hope you get your BFP very soon Big Smile

I just took a couple of weeks off this board because it really is hard to see all the BFPs sometimes!  Two of my sisters just told me their KU and everyone around me keeps asking when we're going to have a baby - seems like I'm surrounded by babies all of a sudden (but can't get pg myself!!).
 
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