Dating is hard for all of us, JM. For realz!
Anywho, I'm not 100% opposed to dating a guy with kids. It's just very hard for me right now because of scheduling. My DD is 17 months old, and she is with me all but 8 hours a week. That leaves me very little free time, so dating a guy who also has rigid time constraints makes it even more difficult. That being said, most guys who do have kids don't have them as much as I have my DD so they would have more free time than I do.