I guess I go into TV shows knowing they're going to be totally factually wrong about things because they are looking for drama and entertainment, not facts. Like on HIMYM, I couldnt get all worked up like some people on Entertainment board about the inconsistancies and errors about Lily's pregnancy. Its a TV show.
I view Army Wives as just a Sunday evening soap opera, so I know that its all just extra drama to suck viewers in. 