When DH and I were renting, we were the awful neighbors. We enjoy having fun all the time and if we were both off from work the next day, we would be up till 4-5AM drinking and dancing. Boy, the good ol days. We were the only young couple in the building and our neighbors never complained. They would just make comments like they remember when they were young. I guess we were lucky.
You sound like selfish jerks who have no respect for other people.
Call it as you feel, but we are just not that type of couple to complain about what our neighbors are doing. I understand that others may be light sleepers, but we just don't care.
We lived in a different apatment complex after college and stop partying as we used to and we had a neighbor right next door to us that partied like we used to and it just didn't bother us. When we go to sleep, we are sleep and we could care less if our neighbors party till the morning.
I will add that if our neighbors ever complained, we would have cooled it down, but like I said, no one ever said anything and we were like grandchildren to our former neighbors, so they didn't mind.
Well, at least you admit to being selfish jerks who have no respect for other people.
You must be slow. Selfish, I am not. I'm a nurse and I give give give with a smile on my face everyday at work because I love helping people. Irl, I have never been called selfish. I am just the opposite. Like I said, where I am from, nobody cares about loud music. If a neighbor told us that our music was disturbing, we would have cooled it down. What don't you understand about that? Get over yourself. You're name calling like you're Mother Theresa and you never did anything "selfish" in your late teens early 20's.(Like I stated, DH were young when we were partying. We are trying to start a family now, so partying is not so much what we do now) It's music. Lighten up. Where are you from and what kind of boring life do you have that loud music gets you so upset? All I say is tell the neighbor if it's so disturbing, but where I lived, even if DH and I weren't playing our music, it was music in the streets at all hours of the night. We must come from different sides of the street so just leave it like that. Agree to disagree.
You really are acting like an idiot. We can agree to disagree about that, but anyone who says "We like our music loud, we're all in this building together, but anyone who's a light sleeper can suck it!" is not a giving or thoughtful person. You sound self-absorbed and quite juvenile. If you can't see that then, well, again... thank God I don't live near you.
Hiding behind your late teens and early twenties doesn't make it any better. Maturity comes with age. Maturity is looking back on what you did and saying "Yeah, not the best." Maturity is NOT coming on here, spouting off that you are NURSE and therefore so GIVING but saying it's okay to be disrespectful to your neighbors and anyone who doesn't understand hates music and is a boring stick in the mud. Nope - some of work and need to sleep. My god - you are so self-centered.
Oh my goodness! It just amazes me how loud neighbors is such a huge deal. That's all! You need to take a chill pill. I have said over and over that if my neighbors would have let me know that my music was a problem, then I would have turned it down, but where I used to live, everyone played music loud so I didn't see it as a problem.
I also made a point that calling the police for loud music is crazy imo.
I never said that if you are a light sleeper then oh well. I said if you are a light sleeper and the music bothers you, then just tell your neighbor to cool it down and that's it. I just don't believe that just because a neighbor plays loud music is a selfish person in general. The act itself may be selfish at the time, yes, but I don't believe it is as serious as you are seeming to take it. The neighbor may not realize that it bothers you, so just tell them and that's it. If they continue to do it, then that's another thing.
And yes, age has a lot to do with it because at the age I am now, I wouldn't do a lot of things that I once did as a teenager or early 20's.
As far as me saying I'm a nurse and it's ok to play loud music, again, I never said it was ok. I said that it never bothered me, but if it bothers someone else, then go tell the neighbor and don't call the police.
I need sleep also. I work 12 hour shifts dear and loud music does not bother me ok? I sleep right through it! If it bothers you or anyone else, JUST TELL THE NEIGHBOR!!!! That's it! Stop reading so deep into my post.