panda0889:
I'm beginning to feel like I can't confide in my husband at all. Every time I do, he turns around and talks to the person I'm venting about and tells them literally everything I said. I've already talked to him about this many times before and he just keeps doing it. It'd be one thing if he used his own words but he tells them exactly what I said. I feel like he's just tattling on me all the time.
What do I do?
How old is this guy? he sounds like he's about 7 years old! He tells tales out of school, really?
You need to sit your H down and tell him to stop the crap immediately. And if he doesn't?
RETHINK him.
If he can't keep his mouth zipped about things you say, you can bet that he's repeating every single glitch and problem in your relationship to just about anybody who wants to give a listen.
This is not mature and it almost borders on abnormal and not to mention that it's inconsiderate and disregarding your feelings.You should be positively livid.
I'd point blank tell him that this type of behavior can cost him his marriage if he doesn't stop it immediately.
This can't be new behavior. Chances are he has always been like this and now for some reason you have "just noticed."
Counseling, stat: nip this in the bud and do it NOW.