This weekend he returned home from trucking and said that he was gonna pack his thing... Of course he did not.
Sis, you had a pretty cut and dried solution:
Leave his sh!t outside the door and get the locks changed.
But instead you....oboy. BOY oboy...:(
He had a few drinks and talked about how he told his mom about everything and she said that I should leave him and its NO ones fault but his own
Uh huh and now he tells his mother a confidential fact that should be between he and you ONLY.
Haven't you had enough? Really?
... Then he claims that the day before he got busted he had told his buddy "I love my wife and I am gonna stop this outside sex
How courageous of the little dickens.
He then claimed that even the women he sent the "I LOVE YOU" text to was shocked by his cheating behavior... claiming that she even said I should leave.
And now everybody from here to Oslo Norway is in on this story. Wow.
He said he and she were friends and friends only and that she wasn't into him like that. Then the SOB said that every married man is in LOVE with at least one person other than his wife
This really is pretty pathetic. Don't you think?
At this point I am think REALLY ... is this dude for real.. is this the liquor talking or him!!!
I dunno. YOu tell ME.
He admitted to sex with at least the two women that I know about and has yet to offer an explanation.
Wait...I thought the explanation was "the devil made me do it." Holy sh!t...really????
There IS no explanation. YOu need only boot his ass out the door and file for an annulment...but my guess is that you won't. You like the big hoopla surrounding this and you like the attention this more or less is getting you. Or do you think that he's such the stud and cocksman that YOU'RE going to wind up being the sole awardee of this booby prize you married?
He asked me to stay home from church Sunday which I did do. Thinking we would have more talk time which we did.
Why are you pursuing this? Really. WHY???
He attempted to embrace me several times but I pushed him away. Once in our bed he even tried to hold me and cross legs which i eventually allowed cause its the only way I can sleep as well.
And you permitted this scumbag to get back into YOUR bed, the same way you did late last week?????
Tell me: are you nuts, are you desparate or what?
He has yet to apologize face to face. He did send a lonnnng text saying he loves me and is sorry... But shouldn't he say that in person??? I am still lost.. I do love him but dont wanna look back 10 years from now and say "I shoulda been gone a lonnnng time ago"...
There is NOTHING to love here. But you don't even get that much at all. Pity.
And apologies are for instances like forgetting a friend's birthday or accidentally cutting somebody off in traffic! Apologize, really??? You think that an apology for screwing everybody from there to Trenton is going to eradicate what he's done???
I woke up to him on top of me and he wouldnt get off. He even said that it was good and he missed it... And to be honest I dont kow how i feel about that part....
So now this is also pretty much rape.
Am I right?
You're clueless as it gets. SOmehow you like being married to a cheater, a rapist, a conniver, a drunk and a phoney.
It's pretty clear what's the deal here. And you know what your choice is. But you're not going to take any advice, which makes you an ass at this point.