I have had a problem with running away when I get scared. I broke up with him in the past because of issues I had. I want to be with him, sometimes it just feels like I get numb to the whole separation thing. Plus with moving in together, it kind of scares me. I'm excited, but it's a big step. He's sensitive sometimes and a tad clingy, but when were actually together I'm the same way. So I feel like a hypocrite when I get mad at it. I want him. I just get scared of change I guess.
I dunno --- I'm getting a mixed message here. You're saying he's clingy but in the next heartbeat it's "So okay I am the same way too when we are together" -- clinginess is not a trait to be admired or to flaunt.
This is the entire gist of it: You both need to be mature enough so that you can stand on your own 2 feet and be able to hack being apart for possibly long long periods of time.
I don't know where you'll be moving to --- it could be many miles away where there is an entirely different lifestyle than where you are living now.
You also have to consider the job market -- would you be able to get a job in your field fairly quickly if you relocate?
And suppose it does not work out with you and iwth him -- what then?
I also do not know your ages. I am guessing you are both rather young.