What you're experiencing is a hormonal issue. This too will pass. Not common to not be in the mood at all during pregnancy.
Your bigger problem is your douchey H:
Well, a couple days ago he didn't freak out on me per say, but got super pissy when I denied him again. He started ranting about how we haven't done anything for over a month and that he didn't think it would be like this. He brought up a lot of things that I didn't even really notice, that not even just sex, that I don't cuddle at night anymore, and in general we are more distant with each other. I told him to just wait another few weeks, and I'm going to start feeling better and this will probably change. He accepted my answer but wasn't too happy with it.
He needs to understand that yours is a hormones due to pregnancy thing and he also needs to grow up.
If he doesn't know the hormonal whys and wherefores how pregnancy hormones can indeed kill a libido, he needs to learn about them, and stat.
IWOW --- what's he going to do when the kiddo comes along and you're dead on your feet from attending to the baby all day long and the last thing you want is sex with your H???
Nip this in the bud NOW. If he exhibits this kind of behavior again, insist on counseling for the both of you.