Thank you all :)
I'm deffinately not trying to give him a hard time about it, i think thats why i came here so i could vent about how sad i am. he feels terrible. i keep telling him it wasn't on purpose so he can't blame anyone. if he had done something stupid to lose it, id be mad but he was simply cleaning off the car from snow, something he has done a zillion times before. It could have just as easily been me, except for he was being the good guy and had be sitting in the car while he cleaned it off.
And thinking realistically, we only spend $200 on his ring, it could have been alot more, but that was the one he picked out. Granted, I sure don't have $200 to replace the ring right now but it will be easier to replace then if he had picked one that was like $800 or even more.
I like the idea of creating a new memory in giving him his new ring....his birthday is in 3 weeks but i honestly dont think i will have the money by then. maybe valentines day? ill have to start thinking.
I think the other thing that bothers me is since we got married we have had terrible luck and things seems to keep going wrong,(car, job issues, dental issues with no insurance etc) and this was just another thing to add to the list.
Oh well bring on 2013, Im ready for a change, and thanks again ladies! I think im really liking the nest better then the knot!